Re: The Love Thread!
Until you are mature enough to at least single your interests down to a single girl, I suggest not dating. Even with my different interests over time, I have always made a point to like one person, to like more than is simply wrong and irrational. You cannot possibly like multiple girls, go out with any one of them, and have a successful relationship. Besides, it's not really about who you will or will not go out with, it's not a check list.
Never go out with a girl that isn't a friend first, because otherwise the whole relationship will end up physical, which is never worth it in the end. So, before you ask a girl out, or even consider it, take a month to at least hang out with her and become acquainted without emotional attachment.
Also: Girls in second grade do not know what love is, nor boy for that matter. Odds are she completely forgot about a crush that never went anywhere in second grade, and if not, she will soon. Being heads over heels is something you can not even fathom- nor she, I guarantee, at this point in your life.
1. By 'I'd date anyone' I don't mean I want to date everyone- I only like one girl but, you know, ridiculous hormones and stuff.
2. My school is so small I'm acquainted with almost everyone, not friends but enough that I know everyone's personality. But that is true.
3. I know there's little that could possibly of come out of it, but I think it's just kind of sad that after all of that, and my friends teasing me about her, that I didn't even REALIZE it. I think it tells me something about myself. I take any flirtation from someone I don't know as mockery. It's strange.
Thanks for the advice though.
Last edited by R&R (February 7, 2009 (10:49am))